How to not be weird at a Web3 conference

Hello mi lords, 

LBR most Web3 people are chronically online, mildly socially awkward, and not exactly natural networkers. 

We thrive in Discord servers, and Twitter threads, not exactly in rooms full of people making forced small talk over stale coffee.

But if you’re now at ETH Denver or just generally attending a Web3 conference in the future, you have to play the in person game. And no, just showing up isn’t enough. The difference between leaving with meaningful connections versus just a tote bag full of stickers comes down to how you navigate the event.

This is your guide to not being weird, avoiding networking cringe, and actually making a Web3 conference worth your time.

• Tips and tricks

• We’re at ETHdenver

1. Read the Room (And Yourself)

We get it, talking to people in real life isn’t the same as shooting off a tweet. But being self-aware is half the battle.

• If you’re naturally introverted, don’t force yourself into loud networking events right away. Start with small side meetups, panel Q&As, or even casual co-working spaces to warm up.

• If you’re the ‘Twitter Main Character’ type, tone it down a notch. There’s a fine line between being engaging and dominating every conversation like a LinkedIn guru.

• If you have a tendency to just lurk, challenge yourself to initiate at least one conversation per session. It doesn’t have to be a hard pitch, just a casual comment about the topic at hand.

2. The Secret to Not Making Conversations Awkward? Have an Actual Point

Here’s the thing: People hate feeling like they’re in a forced networking moment. The easiest way to avoid that? Give them something real to respond to.

Let us hold your hand when we tell you this: 

🚫 Bad: "So... what do you do?"
✅ Good: "I saw your thread about onchain reputation systemswhere do you think the biggest gaps are right now?"

🚫 Bad: "Hey, I work in DeFi. Cool event, huh?"
✅ Good: "The last panel on DeFi risk management was interesting, but I feel like they totally ignored the real problem: incentives. What’s your take?"

The formula is simple: Make it about them (we know we love attention), reference something relevant, and give them something to bounce off. This works 10x better than a generic intro that makes people secretly wish they had an escape route.

3. Be More Than a Walking Sales Pitch

Nothing kills a conversation faster than leading with a shill. You might have the best product, the best protocol, or the best idea in the room, but if you start every convo trying to “sell” it, you’ll get tuned out fast.

• Instead, lead with insights, shared interests, or industry pain points.

• If they ask what you do? Make it conversational, not rehearsed. (“I’m working on solving XYZ problem in Web3” > “We’re a revolutionary blockchain solution with unparalleled scalability and adoption potential.”)

• Give value first. Offer a connection, share some alpha, or drop an interesting stat. When you do that, people will naturally ask about what you’re working on.

4. How to Join a Group Conversation Without It Being Weird

One of the trickiest social moves at a conference? Breaking into a group conversation without making it awkward. Here's how:

1. Observe before diving in. If it’s a closed-circle huddle, maybe don’t barge in. If it’s more open, position yourself near the edge.

2. Catch a keyword or topic. Wait for a natural pause and then chime in with something relevant to what’s already being discussed.

3. Don’t overthink your opening line. A simple “That’s an interesting take, why do you think [X] will play out that way?” is all it takes.

4. Keep it short at first. If people respond positively, congrats, you’re in. If they just nod and move on? No worries, find another group.

5. Have a Plan, But Be Flexible

The worst move? Wandering around aimlessly, hoping to “bump into” good conversations.
The second worst move? Over scheduling yourself to the point that you miss the spontaneous, valuable moments.

The best approach? A mix of structure and adaptability.

• Mark 2-3 must-attend talks or panels. Not because you need to hear the content, but because they attract the right people.

• Know the key side events, but don’t RSVP to everything. Keep space for last-minute invites to smaller, high-value gatherings.

• Have 3-5 people you actually want to meet. DM them beforehand, suggest grabbing a quick drink, and make it casual.

6. Merch is a Cheat Code (If Done Right)

You know what’s better than handing out business cards that will get lost? Wearing or giving away something people actually remember.

• If you’re repping a project, make it subtle but recognizable. A unique hoodie, a branded hat, or a conversation-starting sticker on your laptop.

• If you’re handing out swag, make it something people actually want. Think high-quality metal water bottles, socks, or limited-edition merch tied to an NFT claim.

• If you have nothing? A well-placed meme sticker can be your entire brand.

7. The Follow-Up That Doesn’t Suck

You had some great convos, made solid connections, now don’t drop the ball.

We’re holding your hand again:

🚫 Bad follow-up: “We should collaborate sometime.”
✅ Good follow-up: “You mentioned looking for better DeFi security tooling, know [XYZ project]? Might be a good fit.”

The goal? Be useful, not generic. Make it obvious why reconnecting with you adds value instead of just collecting another contact.

Want more tips? Watch this live done by the girlies on the ground from EthDenver about Web3 conferences !

And btw

🚨 We’re at ETHDenver! 🚨 

Our team will also be on the ground, attending key panels, side events, and, of course, the best happy hours. If you’re in town and want to connect, hit us up.

We also put together an ETHDenver Guide covering all the key events, side quests, and the best bars and restaurants in town. Check it out.

Got questions? Feedback? You know where to find us 📞—we’re here to help you get organized, even if we’re still figuring out our own lives.

Until next week,

stay cookish. 🍪